Power is like gravity.
Luminary. Muse. Courtesan. Witch.
What do these titles all have in common? In order from the most culturally exalted to the most culturally degraded, they exemplify women with power. Not worldly power, or power over others, but an inner authority that buffers against the prevailing viewpoints outside of us. This kind of power effortlessly and naturally absorbs like gravity.
A woman embodying her power becomes stronger as she matures, meaning she becomes more supple, soft and radiant. To the degree she cultivates it, power ensures her relevance no matter what age. Which brings me to you.
It's not an accident that you've landed here. No matter what your circumstances look like, you likely want the sensation of being alive and fully engaged. Your desire is bedrock to this experience and why start there. What do you want?
Coaching & You
Good coaching means we place quality attention on an area of your life long enough to create change. Again, we start with your desire. Desire remains one of the most difficult forces to work with because it shows up in the most intimate parts of life and it disrupts those parts. I like to call this aspect of desire “intelligent disruption”, but you may know it as chaos. When you can be intimate with your own unique brand of chaos, your attention becomes more potent— the quality of your attention determines the quality of your life.
Your desire may sometimes feel exhilarating, and it may sometimes feel pitted against what you think is appropriate, allowed, deserved or even possible. I tailor my approach to your specific situation, and my approach is personal and real. You as a successful client take what we discuss in coaching sessions and apply it to your daily life. I will give you occasional homework and readings to further deepen your understanding of what we work on, but ultimately your growth—and desire— is yours to support.
That said, if you want a “sage on stage” experience, you won’t find it here. Instead of stringing you along to The Next Big Thing, I’m invested in teaching you how to work with desire and all it brings as part of my purpose.
Intro— 12 weeks of one-on-one coaching with Sofia. This is a good starter package for people who are new to coaching. Clients who do not live in the Philadelphia area may opt for remote coaching.
6 Months— Perfect for people who are looking for significant change and show a strong commitment to their transformation. This package allows for more in-depth exploration and experimentation in a one-on-one setting.
1 Year Intensive— Experiential coaching. This is a deep dive into your world. We use your entire environment for your growth, going far beyond the scope of weekly sessions. Powerful imagination required.
Apprenticeship— Learn to do what I do. From limbic regulation to interaction design, train with me to engage the esoteric in everyday life and relationships.
Corporate— For ride or die teams who are not afraid to get their hands dirty in a connected mess of human relationships. Instead of wondering how to handle interpersonal challenges without getting fired, you’ll be powered by the trust you’ve built within your group. Includes taboo topics typically off the table or muddled in PC culture in a #metoo world.
The experiential arm of coaching, interaction design gives clients an opportunity to fully immerse in a connection-based environment. Past designs include:
Down the Rabbit Hole: Scavenger hunt in Chelsea Market and the High Line i New York City. Players accumulated points based on how connectable and creative they were.
Orgasmic Dinner Party: Eight course chef’s tasting menu with content for each stage of Orgasm. Yes… there are 8!
The Hero’s Journey; finding visceral sensation in the quietest of places through sensory deprivation and ceremony.
Summer retreats; walking meditation, sensate practice
Small exercises; masculine-feminine communication
Schedule Your Consultation
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1. What do you want coaching or experience to help you with?
2. What scares you about that process?
3. How do you know you or your organization is ready?